Wish list

A Birthday Wish List (Or, Things That Have Quietly Caught My Eye)

Caroline — Sat, 21 Feb 2026 17:00:02 +0000

Every year around my birthday, I make a short list of things I’ve been drawn to lately. Not because I expect them all. Not because I need them. And certainly not because my happiness hinges on acquiring more.

It’s more of a snapshot — a record of what feels aligned in this particular season.

At 37, I don’t impulse-buy the way I once did. I edit. I consider. I revisit. If something lingers in my mind for weeks, that usually means something.

Here’s what’s been lingering.

The Valentine’s Day Quencher H2.0 FlowState Tumbler | 20 OZ||Cressida Quilted Top Handle Bag||Imaginary Authors x Anthropologie Spin Me Round Glass Candle||Cloudsurfer Max||Pepsi® Wild Cherry
Tinted Lip Gel||Laura Ashley Loveston Sheet Set||Bubble Gum Large Slim Card Holder||Delina Exclusif Parfum Parfums de Marly

The Stanley 20 OZ

Hydration has become less of a trend and more of a baseline requirement for functioning like an adult. The Stanley 20 OZ version feels practical without being oversized, and I appreciate that it doesn’t pretend to be anything revolutionary.

It’s a well-designed object that makes an everyday habit slightly nicer. That’s the kind of “luxury” I respect now — incremental upgrades to daily life.

Would my current water bottle continue to work? Of course.
But there’s something appealing about refining the small rituals.

The Cressida Quilted Top Handle Bag

There’s a specific category of handbag that signals composure. Structured, quilted, top-handle — it suggests you planned your outfit and possibly your week.

The Cressida Quilted Top Handle Bag sits squarely in that category. It’s feminine without being saccharine, polished without feeling overly precious. It reads classic rather than trendy.

I don’t need another bag. I do, however, appreciate accessories that feel timeless enough to outlast a mood.

This one feels like it belongs at a birthday dinner, an art opening, or simply on a day when you’d like to feel slightly more put together than usual.

Imaginary Authors x Anthropologie “Spin Me Round” Glass Candle

Candles are one of the few indulgences that I rarely question. They’re less about fragrance and more about atmosphere.

The “Spin Me Round” Glass Candle from Imaginary Authors x Anthropologie is beautifully packaged — the kind of piece you’d leave out intentionally. It feels curated, almost literary.

Lighting a candle at the end of the day isn’t dramatic. It’s subtle. It’s a signal that you’re home, and the pace can soften.

Do I need another candle? No.
But do I appreciate objects that make a room feel considered? Absolutely.

Cloudsurfer Max Sneakers

The older I get, the more I understand that good footwear is non-negotiable.

The Cloudsurfer Max sneakers are appealing because they merge performance and restraint. They don’t scream “fitness identity.” They’re simply well-engineered and aesthetically clean.

If I’m investing in movement — walking more, prioritizing health — then I’m willing to invest in the right support. Not as a trend, but as a commitment.

There’s something quietly satisfying about choosing practicality that still feels like you.

Pepsi® Wild Cherry Tinted Lip Gel

This one is admittedly playful.

The Pepsi® Wild Cherry Tinted Lip Gel leans nostalgic in a way that feels self-aware rather than juvenile. It’s the beauty equivalent of a cherry soda on a summer afternoon — not essential, but charming.

I appreciate beauty products that don’t take themselves too seriously. Not everything has to be luxury-grade. Sometimes something is allowed to be fun.

Laura Ashley Loveston Sheet Set

Bedding is rarely glamorous in conversation, but it’s one of the most impactful upgrades you can make.

The Laura Ashley Loveston Sheet Set carries that soft, floral heritage feel — refined rather than loud. It suggests an appreciation for detail.

We spend a third of our lives in bed. If there’s an area worth elevating slowly and thoughtfully, it’s that one.

This isn’t about aesthetic for Instagram. It’s about the quiet luxury of good sleep.

Bubble Gum Large Slim Card Holder

I’ve reached a point where I prefer slim, intentional accessories over oversized everything.

The Bubble Gum Large Slim Card Holder is compact and slightly irreverent. It adds personality without demanding attention.

It’s the kind of small object that feels distinctly chosen. And I like that.

Delina Exclusif Parfum by Parfums de Marly

Fragrance is where indulgence becomes intimate.

Delina Exclusif is deeper and creamier than its brighter counterpart — richer rose, softened by warmth. It’s less daytime flirtation, more evening composure.

This isn’t a daily errand scent. It’s deliberate. It lingers.

I have perfumes I love. I don’t need another. But fragrance, more than most things, marks chapters. And there’s something fitting about associating a birthday with a scent that feels slightly more assured.

On Wanting Without Needing

It’s important to say this clearly: a wish list is not a demand list.

These are things I’ve noticed. Appreciated. Considered.

Some may eventually make their way into my life. Some won’t. That’s fine.

I’ve learned that it’s possible to admire beautiful objects without feeling entitled to them. It’s also possible to enjoy material things without confusing them for fulfillment.

At 37, I’m far more interested in intentionality than accumulation.

If something enhances daily life, aligns with my taste, or supports a goal — I’ll consider it.

If it’s fleeting, I’ll let it pass.

That discernment is the real gift of getting older.

A Birthday, Reframed

Birthdays used to feel louder. More performative. More about proving something.

Now, they feel reflective.

This list isn’t about acquiring everything in sight. It’s about recognizing what I’m drawn to right now: structure, softness, quality, subtle indulgence, humor.

It’s about taste evolving.

And perhaps that’s the most satisfying part — not the items themselves, but the clarity.

If something from this list appears wrapped in ribbon this year, I’ll be grateful.

If not, I’ll still feel exactly where I want to be: steady, self-aware, and increasingly certain of what suits me.

That, more than anything, feels like growth.

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My Cozy, Unbothered Christmas List (aka: Things I Absolutely Don’t Need But Can’t Stop Thinking About)

Caroline — Sat, 15 Nov 2025 16:01:06 +0000

Every year I say the same thing, and every year I mean it: I don’t need a single thing for Christmas. Truly. I’m a grown woman with a job, a fully formed personality, and a home overflowing with things I’ve “treated myself” to over the years. But even with that truth loud and clear, I still somehow end up with a Christmas list—not because I’m lacking, but because I’m curious. Because I love beautiful things. Because I enjoy noticing what’s catching my eye in a particular season. And this year, everything on my list is whispering the same energy: hydrated, cozy, unbothered, and in my lane. This is less a list of wants and more a snapshot of who I am right now. A girl who wants to feel soft, comfortable, easy, and spoiled in the quietest way possible.

So here it is—my very not-urgent, not-demanding, not-necessary Christmas wish list. Just the things I’m loving, liking, or low-key lusting after right now.

Minimalist Leather Tote Bag (small, ivory)||I.N.C. International Concepts Fawne Leather Knee High Boots||Clinique Black Honey Collection||Gisou Mini Honey Infused Hair Oil||Strawberry Tears Bundle||Cloud Soft Forest Camo High-Rise Wide Leg Sweatpants & Hoodie||Sequin Red Lip Classic Thing That You Like Crewneck Sweatshirt||Satin Pillowcase in Striped Bows||Croissant Hoop Earrings||Marshmallow Fluff Scented Candle

Minimalist Leather Tote Bag (Small, Ivory)

Let me start with the item I am obsessed with. Like, cannot stop thinking about it obsessed. The small ivory leather tote bag has such a hold on me right now. I have plenty of bags—probably more than plenty—but I somehow do not have one in this exact soft ivory shade. And something about the minimalist silhouette just feels like it would elevate every outfit without even trying.

It’s clean, it’s chic, and it goes with everything from winter whites to deep fall tones. It also reads subtly luxurious without trying too hard. A quiet luxury moment that whispers rather than screams.

I keep imagining it with my neutral sweaters, my breezy skirts, even my athleisure.

Do I need it? Absolutely not.

Do I love it? Absolutely yes.

I.N.C. International Concepts Fawne Leather Knee High Boots

Let’s talk boots. My current brown boots… they’ve walked me through seasons of my life, through weather they didn’t deserve, and honestly, they’ve held on longer than anyone expected. But it’s time. They are not just scuffed—the inside of the boot is literally shedding. They are beyond repair. They are past Pete the Cobbler’s magic hands. If I brought them in, he would probably suggest letting them go.

So new brown boots have officially moved from “silly little want” to “practical necessity disguised as a treat.”

The I.N.C. Fawne boots are gorgeous—structured, sleek, classic. They’re the polished-riding-boot-but-still-modern style I gravitate toward. They’re the kind of boots that make you stand up straighter. They’re the kind of boots that say, “I knew exactly what I was doing when I got dressed today.”

Clinique Black Honey Collection

There’s a reason that Black Honey is so popular. It’s iconic. It’s easy. It’s flattering on literally everyone. And as someone who loves a natural-but-elevated lip, I feel like the full Black Honey collection is having another renaissance—and I’m here for it.

It’s the perfect winter lip: a little bit moody, a little bit glossy, a little bit like you just came inside from the cold and look adorable without trying. It matches the vibe I’m on this season perfectly: soft, subtle, effortless.

Gisou Mini Honey Infused Hair Oil

You know how some products just feel luxurious the moment you put them on—even if they’re tiny? I want my hair to smell like a warm floral honey cloud. I want my ends to look shiny even when I’ve been up since 6 AM. I want to feel like a moisturized, well-conditioned princess.

This mini size is perfect for testing without committing, and it fits right into the theme of my whole list: comfort, softness, self-care, indulgence in a tiny bottle.

Strawberry Tears Bundle

My strawberry era continues, I fear. Anything strawberry-adjacent speaks directly to my soul—and this bundle blends cute packaging, sweet vibes, and a little bit of emotional main-character energy. It’s adorable. It’s very “me.” And it fits into my love of things that make me feel feminine, whimsical, and just the slightest bit dramatic in the best way.

Cloud Soft Forest Camo High-Rise Wide Leg Sweatpants & Hoodie

Cozy. Cozy. Cozy. Did I mention cozy?

I’m telling you—the vibe this year is “I’m inside my house, minding my business.” This set is the embodiment of that. Real ones know I’m a big camo girl, but the pink camo? The cloud-soft material? The wide leg? It’s giving luxe loungewear, not “duck hunters.”

This is the kind of set you wear while sipping a matcha, journaling, getting lost in your Kindle, or settling into a movie marathon. It’s basically wearable melatonin.

Sequin Red Lip Classic “Thing That You Like” Crewneck Sweatshirt

A little sparkle, a little graphic moment, a little festive flair. This sweatshirt feels like holiday season done right—playful, cute, and something that would immediately make me smile the moment I put it on.

It’s comfy without being boring. Festive without being costume-y. Cheerful without being loud. And the sequin red lip? Iconic.

It also has that “I’m the fun friend who knows her aesthetic” energy.

Pillowcase — skin- and hair-friendly luxury

Silk pillowcases feel like self-care you actually notice. I love a product that quietly helps: less friction for my hair, less creasing for my face, a silky slip that keeps your skincare where it should be. The pillowcase I want is a soft ivory or a pale pink—something that looks pretty on my bed and plays well with my aesthetic.

It’s also practical: smoother hair in the morning, fewer bedhead episodes, and my skincare feeling less wasted. A pillowcase is a tiny bedroom upgrade that pays dividends every single morning.

Gold Croissant Earrings — the little detail that feels big

Small jewelry makes me feel seen. Lately, I’ve been loving gold croissant-shaped earrings—a little whimsical, a little playful, and perfect for elevating even the simplest outfit. They’re understated but unexpected, the kind of tiny luxury that catches the light and makes a casual moment feel intentional.

You put them on, and suddenly you’re ready for a meeting, a walk, a date, a brunch. It’s such a small change but it makes a mood shift feel effortless.

Marshmallow Fluff Candle — atmosphere in a jar

Candles are my season-setting device. Sarah walked into my apt this summer (she sometimes breaks in to leave me flowers) and asked HOW it smelled like strawberry candy when I’d been gon three days. I winter, I go cinnamon bun and marshmallow. The Marshmallow Fluff candle is soft, enveloping, and just sweet enough to feel indulgent without being overpowering.

Lighting a candle is intentional. It’s that tiny ceremonial moment at the end of a busy day when you decide to be gentle with yourself. So yes, a candle is on the list. It’s mood, ambiance, and sensory comfort all wrapped in a glass jar.

So What Does This List Say About Me Right Now?

Honestly? That I am entering the era of gentle indulgence.

None of these items are needs. They’re simply reflections of how I want to feel as I move through winter. Warm. Comfortable. Taken care of. Elevated in small ways. Inspired by little luxuries.

So no, I don’t need any of this. But I love all of it.

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Christmas list

Caroline — Tue, 16 Nov 2021 10:00:15 +0000

Christmas the past couple years, for me, has been totally about leaning into having calm, quiet moments with my family. Last year, it was especially cozy. Christmas Mass was recorded by my church and put on YouTube due to Covid. My parents and I ordered in from out favorite Indian restaurant, and my mom and I watched the service after dinner. The altar guild had dropped off communion wafers for those who wanted, and we took communion with chilled white wine we got from a neighbor. It was certainly different, but a sweet memory I’ll have forever.

This year, things seem pretty much back to normal, except for the fact that my mom and I have already decided that we have no interest in Black Friday. Instead, my mom, my Auntie Steph, and I will go to Chef Geoff’s and then I’ll finally get to show off my apartment to Steph. She actually gifted me my couch and my chair in my living room and I can’t believe that she hasn’t seen it yet!

Since we’re not doing the shoppin’ thang on Black Friday, my mom asked me what I want for Christmas. I honestly don’t want or need anything but she was like PLEASE give me a list. So I figured I’d share with all of you, too!

1.Women’s Scotch Plaid Flannel Shirt, Relaxed Zip Hoodie||2.AE Plaid Babydoll Mini Dress||3.The Baby Brush Crush Mini Heated Straightening Brush||4.Maison Margiela ’REPLICA’ Beach Walk||5.renew face serum||6.Runway Quartz Rose Gold-tone Dial Tortoise Twist Chain Link Ladies Watch||7.Ella Corduroy Shacket||8.Tess + Tricia Zodiac Drop Huggie Hoop Earrings||9.Teddy Bare It All Bronzer||10.Naked Honey Eyeshadow Palette

A note to my mom and anyone else reading this: I am by no means asking for everything on this list. These are just ideas and what I’m eyeing right now! I used to do monthly wish lists but seeing as how I’m not blogging as consistantly as I used to, you can always check out what I’m eyeing in my links under CURRENTLY CRAVING, AMAZON WISH LIST, and SEPHORA LOVES LIST.

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March wish list {birthday edition}

Caroline — Fri, 01 Mar 2019 10:15:02 +0000

This year has started off with a bang. Seriously. I got some great news at work that makes me feel incredibly valued, I saw one of my besties get married, and March has something just about every weekend… starting with a nice dinner with my parents and Kendall this weekend at Rare. PLUS- I’m super excited for my birthday!

If y’all know anything about me, you know that I could live on Mission chorizo quesadillas and margs. Of course I decided, especially after my amazing bach party with them, that I wanted to celebrate the big 3-0 at my favorite spot. And I couldn’t let this momentous occasion pass without a theme, so 13 Going On 30 is it. The idea was to have my friends come dressed like they did when they were 13, or inspired by the earl 2000s, but I don’t even care! I just want to party with my frands and play dress-up. Everyone tells me that I don’t look 30, so why not go with it?

I usually don’t get *excited* for makeup launches, but the Brunch Date Pressed Powder Shadow Palette is all of my colors and I obviously love the theme!

Rompers are actually great for my body type because they hit my curves well. And I love the ruffle detail on the straps of this Khloe Sleeveless Romper.

Every time I see these shoes I think of my favorite Disney kitty, Marie. The bow is just too cute.

Maybe it’s the nostalgia talking with my birthday coming up but oh my gosh do I miss my Caboodle!

I’m usually all about heart-shaped sunnies but how adorable are these daisy glasses?

To go with the daisy theme, a Ban.Do Retractable Charging Cord for little miss never charges her phone over here.

Kendall and I decided we didn’t want to bring our rings with us when we go on our cruise. I was considering getting this insanely cheap fake set, but Kendall’s right that it’ll probably turn my fingers green. I might get a new pack of slim silicon rings instead- totally fine for going in the water, etc.

I’ve been checking out bathing suits like crazy and I think my 3 fave are here, here, and here. I love these styles because they hide my tum but don’t look frumpy. And check out the bow detail on the middle one!

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January wish list

Caroline — Mon, 07 Jan 2019 10:46:49 +0000

I hope everyone had as beautiful of a start to 2019 as I did. I closed out my year with Kendall on our first married NYE at Tabard Inn with a quick trip to the Mayflower and the intent to recreate our first dance in the ballroom. When that failed, we headed back to Glover Park to ring in midnight with our neighbors with too much champagne and tequila. New Year’s Day was a total veg-fest with the entire new season of Lemony Snicket and I got to reorganize one of our closets (which I actually totally enjoyed. These bins are ah-maze-ing!)

Kendall and I were talking over dinner about how exciting the first few months of the year are for us. We have both of our birthdays (my 30th!), Sarah’s wedding, our first anniversary, and the corresponding trip the the Bahamas! Some of our goals include reading more, Kendall wants to be proficient in coding, and we both want to make healthier choices. We’re going into 2019 psyched to see what this year brings us. What do you have planned for 2019?

Old Navy has some cuuuute bathing suites right now. This gingham Scoop-Neck Swim Top for Women I think is my favorite!

Since my post about when to toss certain items without expiration dates, I’ve been really good about throwing away things in my bathroom that have “expired”. Makeup brushes are the next thing on my list of things to replace, and this set is a best-seller on Amazon.

I had a really cute little jelly purse from SheIn a couple of years ago but in my travels I ended up with this weird red gash on it. The jelly purse is great for the beach though because it can be wiped clean easily so I’m thinking Ingrid Jelly Silicone Medium Bag would be awesome for our Bahamas vacation!

I’ve fully embraced the tulle skirt, and a grey one with embellishments is extra fancy. I’m between this and a deep green for Sarah’s wedding.

I’ve been going nutty about using what we have since I organized our bathroom closet… like I refilled my almost empty lotion bottle with hotel lotion. These little travel bottles come with labels so while I’m combining random shampoos and lotions I can at see what they are. These bottles are also TSA approved!

When I was purging old makeup, I was sad to find that my Heavy Metal Glitter Eyeliner was totally dried up. I don’t wear glitter all that often, but it’s an easy thing to swipe on before a fancy night out.

New year new phone case? I’m really rough on my phone and my current tough case is cracked. With Zazzle, I can also add my logo to this one!

I absolutely love the Zenni glasses I already have (prescription for computer use at under $20 with shipping!) but I always forget them at work. I’d love a second, fun pair to just keep for use at home.

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December wish list {Christmas list edition}

Caroline — Mon, 03 Dec 2018 10:52:40 +0000

I’ve been saying this for the last couple of years, but it’s harder and harder to tell my family, and now Kendall, what I want for Christmas. I actually asked Kendall to look into Panic! At The Disco tickets at the ~~MCI Arena~~ Capital One Arena, but we’re so spoiled with intimate venues that, honestly, $12o for nosebleeds seems insane. #hardpass

I also know my mom is getting me the coffee pot to go with my formal tea service. We have a code that if we get each other gifts that we know about we say, “ho ho ho” and that means, “you’re not getting this until Christmas, lady.” Kind of a silly tradition and we crack ourselves up with it.

But Kendall on Friday night was like, “seriously, what do you want for Christmas?” I thought a little list wouldn’t hurt. Also, I make a wish list every month… so that too. What’s on your Christmas list this year?

I’ve mostly taken to wearing my own designs when I wear a graphic tee but I’d make an exception for this Serious Business Woman Classic Tee.
Did you see my booties post this past weekend? There are so many cute booties I’d rock this season but especially these Betsey Johnson Black Wilma Plaid Ankle Booties.
With my job, I’m usually literally running around the office and pockets come in clutch. I’m sometimes climbing shelves or installing computers… my boss and I are admin, IT, handy-women, errand runners- always on the go. Enter the Long Sleeve Loose Causal Dress with Pockets.
I overheard a conversation at Nordstrom Rack between two women looking at the impulse buys in the checkout line that made total sense. Sample perfume sizes are actually the best because it takes so long to run out of the big bottles and with the little ones you can switch it up more. I’ve been wanting to try I LOVE JUICY COUTURE Eau de Parfum.
If you saw my Instagram stories this weekend, you saw mine and Kendall’s new car! I think that calls for a new Key Chain!
My dentist recommended that I try and electric toothbrush because I have a fake tooth and the sonic brushing would be easier on my gums. I like the idea of the antibacterial silicone of the FOREO ISSA Play Sonic Toothbrush.
I think more than ever before my skin and sinuses are feeling the heat cranked on. My skin feels dull unless I take meticulous care of it and my head has been killing me. I think it would be worth it to try a Mini Cool Mist Humidifier at my desk.
I have a thing for cute water bottles and mugs. I’m usually carrying around one of two sparkly tumblers with my monogram. I love the milk carton shape of this Eco-Friendly Water Bottle.
Out of everything on my list, I’m probably least likely to get this Long Sleeve V-Neck Ripped Pullover. This is because I cannot see my husband or my mother liking this distressed look. I love it. #treatmyself
The Ingrid Bag has that classic Chanel bag look at a 10th of the price. It’ll never go out of style.
I love being cozy but hate hate hate being bundled up, especially on my way to work. A Double Pom Pom Beanie Hat might actually encourage the bundling though.

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November wish list

Caroline — Thu, 01 Nov 2018 14:49:38 +0000

I cannot believe that November is already here. October was a crazy month and I’m ready for some low-key weekends. I want to get back to blogging more regularly- along with jumping back into healthier eating and maybe heading back to the gym. We’ll see about that last one.

I’m also about to start doing my Christmas gift guides as it’s the time of year where I’m super excited to shop for my loved ones for the perfect Christmas gifts. If you’re starting to Christmas shop (or finishing it up!) don’t forget that Amazon Smile is running a promotion through November 2nd where you can earn up to 5% cash back on your purchases to a charity of your choice. I’m shopping for Homeless Children’s Playtime Project. The mission of the Homeless Children’s Playtime Project is to cultivate resilience in children experiencing family homelessness by providing and expanding access to transformative play experiences. All children deserve to play!

My wish list this month is totally looking towards the season ahead. I want comfy, soft, and just a little bit of sparkle. What do you have going in November? And what’s on your wish list?

I’m all about the sweaters right now. This Fleece Knit Sweater comes in three colors and is under $30!
Also all about sweatshirts with flair. I could easily wear this Caslon(R) Twist Front Sweatshirt on casual Friday at the office without it feeling like workout/ coze clothes with jeans and booties.
Since I’m terrible at actually wearing earrings, I don’t really invest much money into buying them. This whole set of Hoop Drop Statement Earrings is under $15!
I spent last weekend in leggings. I’m usually partial to plain black but something about these teal + blush lilybod Frankie Leggings is really appealing to me.
Honestly, I just love the blush/ spikes combo of this bkr Spiked Air Kiss water bottle. I’m not sure what about it can justify the price… but it sure is cute! And now that heat is coming on in offices and homes, it’s extra important to stay hydrated.
More of the color I’m craving this fall, I’m super loving these Block Heel Ankle Boot with Pearls. Just enough of a heel to make me feel ladylike with a dash of sparkle!
I think it’s a general concesous at Pride Rock that any variation of “flannel” scents like this 2-Wick Candle in Cozy Flannel is a fave. Not too feminine, but a totally cozy scent.
Especially after last night’s debaucle in which I got exfoliating scrub ALL up in my eyes, I’m really curious to try Speedy Cleansing Oil. For real, anyone who has used a cleansing oil I would LOVE your feedback.
I love how this Stila Magnificent Metals Foil Finish Eye Shadow in Dusty Rose is basically several products in one. I happen to love pink eye shadow (pinks, purples, and browns make my eyes look really green) and this would be a great product going into holiday festivity looks.
I’m a huge MCM fan, and until I have a whole house to decorate, I suppose this Just Add Color: Mid-Century Modern Mania coloring book will have to do to keep my home décor fascination at bay.

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October wish list

Caroline — Wed, 03 Oct 2018 10:00:31 +0000

I feel like I’ve been in almost a permanent state of discombobulation this year. I just feel like I can’t get it together for the life of me. But I am also learning that this is ok. Bills are paid, I’m healthy, I have my amazing friends, family, and husband and the world is still turning.

I have been slowly learning to let things go. If blog posts don’t get done, laundry isn’t put away the night it gets done. etc. – it’s ok. It’s not the end of the world! This month is super busy with something going on every weekend. I’ve just had two weekends away, a friend is coming to visit, I have a bachelorette weekend, and then Dani and I are working on a little something special for Halloween. I have so much fun stuff coming up I’m just not going to put pressure on myself so I can enjoy it.

I would like to be more consistent in almost every aspect of my life though. I’m not a morning person, but I would like to be. I would like a more consistent blog schedule. I would like to figure out how to actually schedule downtime. I’ll work on it. It’s finding a balance between living my life and living it with a little more structure. Until then, I’m just chugging along the best I can, excited for fall weather to get here and stay here.

I’ve been pretty drawn to fawn print recently. There’s not a whole lot of it out there, but this 7 For All Mankind Faux Fur Moto Jacket In Fawn is GORGEOUS and has had the price totally slashed.
I’ll just go ahead and take this cardigan in two colors, please.
I actually saw this watch on Instagram and SPOILER a lot of the things advertised as a great deal can actually be found for a lower price on Amazon. I just thing the starry face is really unique!
Vegan leather has come such a long way in the past decade or so. One of the best examples of this is Urban Expressions with their vegan leather handbags. I love the lux look of the Spears.
I barely wear earrings but these Kenneth Jay Lane 2 Gold Star and Moon Mismatch Post Earrings are both delicate and quirky.
Another slashed price jacket- how cool is the mix of textures on this ENGLISH FACTORY Tassel-Trimmed Jacket?
I’m probably super lame putting my own products on my wish list but here we are. I’m still super monogram crazy and also a sucker for cute tumblers. My Memphis Design inspired tumbler with a monogram template is very tempting.
Another something I saw on Instagram that’s on Amazon… this slouchy sweater comes in so many colors and is under $20!

What’s on your wish list this October?

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September wish list

Caroline — Mon, 03 Sep 2018 10:00:48 +0000

I can’t believe how fast this summer flew. Yes, it’s still hot and yes, we technically have a few more weeks but I’m pretty sure most of us in the US consider Labor Day the end of summer. I am SO psyched for this month. My sweet sister in law is getting married so Kendall and I are road tripping to Mississippi- stopping to see our best man and hopefully his godson along the way. Kendall’s family is so sweet to me and I’m blessed with a wonderful relationship with them. Not so much looking forward to 14 hours in the car each way but it’ll be nice to get out of town.

Then the week after that is Chowder Fest so I’ll be down the shore eating and buying all of the things with my mom and two of our closest friends. I cannot wait for the end of this month!

So what’s on my wish list for this transitional time?

One again, I’m on the hunt for perforated booties. I actually loved my pair from Charlotte Russe, but, no surprise here, they fell apart after one particularly tough romp through Georgetown.
Leopard booties also seem to be an issue for me. I had a cute pair that I tried to make work from the kids section of Target but they just pinched a little too much so I ended up selling them to a coworker for her 11 year old.
I’m not saying I need another purse, but I am saying that if I did, it would be the Amor bag from Urban Expressions.
Maxi dresses are certainly a challenge when you have the body type of a corgi, but my little legs be damned, I’m falling hard for long fall florals.
I recently mentioned a new-to-me brand called Bobeau and honestly I would wear anything they make. A baby doll tee, however, is perfect for casual Fridays where I can wear jeans but prefer a more elevated top.
Ditto a sweet tunic top. I think this one would actually be long enough to wear as a dress with tights and boots.
I’ve said this many, many times but August is not a good time for me. I’m always an anxious, nasty mess. I’ve never used a smudge kit before but anything to rid our space of stale, negative energy is a-okay by me.
Due to a gross incident with powder dip (10/10 WOULD NAHT recommend!!) I’ve had naked nails almost all summer. I’ll go back to my gel polish, thank you very much! I think a pretty berry like butter LONDON’s Queen Vic would be nice for this time of year, if I don’t go to my regular soft pink.
I’m almost out of my “everyday” perfume (Moschino’s Fresh) and I was explorin’ the webz looking for something new to try. I came across a brand called Imaginary Authors that comes up with a fictitious literary persona for each of their scents. Saint Julep sounds the most delicious to me.

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August wish list

Caroline — Mon, 06 Aug 2018 10:00:40 +0000

As much as I’ve been complaining that everything is wet, I’m actually pleased that at least we’re not going into August extra hot. (Edit: I wrote this last week before DC turned into the Amazon). Warm and humid I can take. Hot and humid I turn into a miserable human. August is generally my least favorite month of the year because I just get so excited for fall to come. I’m antsy for that #PSL life, clear blue skies, and that back-to-school feeling that has never really gone away, even though my last fall back-t0-school was (ew) 8 years ago.

August is kind of a slow month for me this year- September and October are going to be insane. Currently on the books this August I have a girls’ night with Sarah and not much else. I’m OK with that. I’m really tying to work on myself – more gym, more mindful eating, more yoga. That’s actually why this wish list is late and why I’ve skipped a few posts- I was workin’ on me last week more than I was workin’ on the blog.

What’s your August looking like?

I actually hadn’t heard of Karen Kane until this year’s #NSALE and the dress I’m on a mission to get in every color. The Karen Kane Tiered Ruffle Hem Dress is perfect for those #covenvibes I want for fall.

Another Karen Kane, this time the Cascade Faux Wrap Dress. Faux wrap dresses are the way to go for my body type- highlighting my waist, which I like, but I also don’t have to worry about a real wrap dress coming apart.

I had this great pair of espadrille wedges that I literally wore into the ground and needed to toss. Loving the idea of a leopard wedge like the Dolce Vita Women’s Pavlin Wedge Sandal because the colors are transitional.

I got to wear my Sperrys on a boat last week! But I’ve also been wearing them to work on rainy, gross days. How cute are these Sperry Songfish Cork Boat Shoes?

Another day another novelty purse. You need to see the inside of this Pink Polly Pocket Heart Shaped Cross Body Bag!

This rain and humidity has given me limited footwear options for work. My favorite flats got stuck in the rain with me on a week ago and I feel like they’re still not dry. My Hunters are awesome but they get so HOT in the summer. Fortunately, there are options beyond the traditional rain boot, like the Sperry Top-Sider Women’s Ariel Beck Rain Boot. These could totally pass as booties for the office.

I know it’s early I feel like I’m already ready for cozy fall mode. I’m nuts about candles, and I feel like this WoodWick Vanilla Gourmand, Toffee Brittle & Toasted Marshmallow candle would be awesome to keep Pride Rock smelling sweet.

I seriously think Winky Lux has some of the best lip products I’ve ever used. And how adorable is this heart-shape on these Winky Lux Steal My Heart Lipstick Pills?

I’ve been seeing pastel rainbow sweaters everywhere and I’m here for it. This Rainbow Knitted Long Draped Cardigan is one of the best prices I’ve seen but Dolls Kill has some really adorable options too! I especially love their CONFETTI CAKEZ OVERSIZED CARDIGAN.